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Counseling for Trauma and Anxiety in Arizona: How to Cope With Cyberbullying and Online Conflict

  • Ali Iverson (Schilling), Psy.D.
  • Dec 6, 2016
  • 4 min read

Updated: Jun 30

Have you ever found yourself doom-scrolling through the comments section of a Facebook or Instagram post - maybe something about the 2024 elections, rising housing costs in Arizona, or even debates around school policies - and walked away feeling anxious, frustrated, or even personally attacked?


You're not alone.


The internet has become a place where conversations quickly escalate. What could be a meaningful dialogue turns into personal attacks, name-calling, and emotional damage. For many adults in Arizona, especially those already managing anxiety or trauma, this kind of online behavior isn’t just upsetting - it can be triggering.

And this growing issue has a name: cyberbullying.


What Is Cyberbullying and How Does It Affect Adults?

Cyberbullying isn’t just a concern for teens. More and more adults - especially between ages 30 and 55 - are experiencing online harassment, personal attacks, and emotional abuse through comment sections, forums, group chats, and even professional platforms like LinkedIn.


Unlike face-to-face arguments, cyberbullying often feels more intense because:

  • It’s public and permanent

  • It can be anonymous

  • It follows you into your home, your safe space


The result? Many adults are struggling with heightened anxiety, social withdrawal, depression, and trauma responses. If this sounds familiar, please know you’re not being "too sensitive." You’re human - and your nervous system is reacting exactly how it’s supposed to when it senses a threat.


Why Do Online Discussions Become So Hostile?

Certain topics - like politics, religion, gender identity, or even public health—are deeply tied to people’s beliefs, values, and sense of identity. They stir strong emotions, especially during times of social and political stress (which we’ve had no shortage of lately in Arizona and across the U.S.).


But here’s the thing: opinions aren’t facts. Just like you wouldn’t argue whether 7 + 7 = 14 (because it’s a fact), many heated online arguments happen because people mistake their opinion as absolute truth. That misunderstanding, combined with the safety of a screen, makes it easier for people to lash out instead of listen.


What Does Cyberbullying Look Like for Adults?

It’s not always obvious. Cyberbullying can show up as:

  • Being mocked for your views or identity

  • Sarcastic comments meant to humiliate

  • Dismissive replies that shut down your voice

  • Personal attacks during a disagreement

  • Targeted harassment in group chats or online communities


These aren’t just “rude comments.” They can chip away at your confidence, increase your anxiety, and even resurface past trauma.


How Therapy Can Help You Heal From Cyberbullying

If you're feeling overwhelmed or emotionally drained from online conflict - and if it’s worsening your anxiety -you’re not alone. Counseling for trauma and anxiety in Arizona can offer you a safe, nonjudgmental space to process what you're going through and begin to heal.


At BrainBody Wellness Counseling, we specialize in helping adults across Arizona who are struggling with the emotional impact of cyberbullying, toxic online communication, and unresolved trauma. Whether you've faced bullying in the past and it's resurfacing, or you're navigating new forms of digital stress, support is available - and you deserve it.


Our team uses trauma-informed therapies like CBT, EMDR, and mindfulness-based approaches to help you:

  • Rebuild a sense of emotional safety and self-trust

  • Set and maintain healthy digital boundaries

  • Manage anxiety and triggers caused by online interactions

  • Heal from both recent and long-standing trauma


You don’t have to keep carrying this alone. If you're searching for trauma and anxiety counseling in Arizona, we’re here to walk alongside you - toward calm, clarity, and real healing.


How Can We Create Safer Online Conversations?

You may not be able to control the internet—but you can protect your peace.

Here are a few ways to engage more mindfully online:

  • Speak to the issue, not the person. Avoid character attacks. Disagree with ideas, not identities.

  • Pause before responding. If you feel your heart racing, it’s okay to step away and breathe.

  • Validate others - even if you don’t agree. You can say, “I hear what you’re saying, and here’s my view…” instead of “You’re wrong” or worse.

  • Know when to disengage. Your mental health is more important than “winning” an argument.

  • Seek connection offline. Real conversations, especially with a therapist, can ground you when online life feels chaotic.


You Don’t Have to Carry This Alone: Counseling for Trauma and Anxiety in Arizona


If you’re feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, emotional triggers, or the lasting effects of trauma - please know you don’t have to face it alone. At BrainBody Wellness Counseling, we offer compassionate, trauma-informed counseling for adults across Arizona, both in-person and through telehealth.


Whether your stress stems from past experiences, toxic relationships, or daily life challenges like online conflict or burnout, support is available. Our therapists use evidence-based treatments such as CBT, EMDR, and mindfulness to help you find relief, build resilience, and feel safe in your mind and body again.


Healing is possible - and it begins with the right support. Let’s walk this path together.



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